This card is from Shine From The Inside Oracle Cards by Brittney Carmichael
Artwork by Jena Kane
From the booklet:
"The need to judge others is a dead giveaway of our own shaky self-esteem. If you're in the habit of criticizing yourself, you'll most likely criticize others too.
When you judge your weight, you focus on the size and shape of everyone else around you and get trapped in constant comparison and criticism.
When you can accept your own flaws, you can accept the fact that others come with their own kind of crazy too. Learning to love ourselves extends our compassion to others.
Affirmation: I turn my judgment into celebration and criticism into kindness."
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Sometimes people confuse being honest with being petty or judgy. There is a difference between "calling a spade a spade", calling out weird or toxic behavior, and being defensive and projecting issues onto someone.
For me this card came up on a day when an unexpected opportunity to share my side of the story concerning the breakup with a mutual friend.
I had been friends with two other people for about ten years and we were a trio. Long story short, I had a heart-to-heart conversation with one of them that resulted in us parting ways. The other friend, who woke up to the news that the trio was now broken, listened to the one who I had the heart-to-heart with and told me that she couldn't be friends with me anymore because whatever I had said upset the other one so much that I must be in the wrong. Then over a year later she started talking to me again but said she never wanted to know what happened between me and the other person.
The day I pulled this card she asked me some questions about this past event. I found myself speaking more from my higher self about the situation and I was able to turn criticism into something that was able to honor everyone in the situation.
What I have found about this deck is that, if you use it as a way to get a head's up about the energies of the day or the energies around a situation, it will guide you as to how to handle what is about to happen. Or in my case, it validated how I handled the unexpected situation.
I would highly recommend this deck for "foreshadowing messages." Even though it is under the category of Self Care I have found this deck gives solid higher-self level guidance about experiences that are about to unfold.
If this card came up in a reading for someone else I would say that they should be prepared for some unexpected question about something from the past or something that is personal. I would say that your higher-self can navigate you through this conversation so that your words are from a thoughtful and self-empowering place. For example, maybe you meet someone new who asks you about your divorce or they ask you something that they don't know is a little emotional trigger for you.
I hope that everyone is having a beautiful day,
Love,
Jackie G, Divine Friend